They say “Home is where the heart is” and we know this to be true! Home is where we gather with loved ones, cook delicious meals, nurture our kids, play games and laugh, and it’s where we should feel safe and at peace to relax and recharge. When you enter your home, you should have a physiological reaction for the better, as though your entire body is breathing a sigh of relief; releasing tension and stress simply for having walked through your door. It signifies that on a subconscious level, you know that you’ve reached your sanctuary. If your home is chaotic, upside down, and disjointed, you won’t be able to relax, and this will perpetuate your difficulty in focusing.
In our family, similar to many families, each preceding generation lived in a smaller home than their offspring. We’ve learned from our predecessors that keeping an orderly home is one of the keys to maintaining sanity. If items are strewn about, particularly in a small space, there is no way to avoid them which becomes both hazardous and uber-bothersome. Some of you may have heard of the term “micro-cuts” used for physical injuries as well as small traumas we experience, and it’s applicable here too. Every time you trip over an item, can't find something, or have to venture to odd parts of the house in order to accomplish a simple task, you’re receiving a micro-cut to your mental health. Having a designated home for every item is imperative to living a healthy life, especially when things get busy. Tidiness matters!